Dear Hilly, What does it mean to be our best selves, when life brings the walls in closer and closer? I think it means calling it lucky to grab 5 minutes on the porch and hear a white-throated sparrow in the trees. To see a junco under the feeder, finally, and be grateful for that one. To buy more bird seed and log it under “entertainment” in my budgeting app. And to dance at 10am, because you can. Love, D.